Firstttttttt time?? help?

Ok. So me and one of my guy mates have been hooking up for a while... Hes 3 years older than me, we are both virgins... until today. We had been organising to have for a while, yesterday we tried but we didnt have lube... and it hurt a lot so we stopped, today we had lube, he fingered me first and that sorta stuff, we used lube, all was good, he eventually broke my hymen, it hurt quite a bit, there was blood on the condom which I expected, but when I went to the toilet... I was wiping and I was bleeding pretty badly... It eventually stopped, but I've been hurting for about 4-5 hours, anyone got some uplifting advice? Is it normal to bleed or hurt?