I feel betrayed by this girl. How should I react?

paula sounds like she has a serious problem. she had accepted the dates with you willingly so why would she do something like that? and the way that you have explained it you were not putting pressure on her to date you when you asked she didn't seem to mind going out with you. i think you need to leave her alone, because she sounds like one of those weird movies on tv (where she liked somebody and because they didn't like her she started to do creepy things because of the lack of attention). please don't try to see her or speak to her any more. just let it go something is not right with her for her to lie like that. and most of all don't be alone with her because she might say that you tried to do something to her. what did your parents say about this?